Why Does My Trainer Say They Train Me, Not My Dog?
Question
Why does my trainer say they train me, not my dog?
Short answer
Because the dog lives with you, not the trainer. For behaviour to last, the owner must learn timing, cues, rewards, environmental management, body language, and consistency.
Key points
- The trainer may get quick results, but the owner must reproduce them at home.
- Dogs respond better when cues and rules are predictable.
- The owner needs to know when to reward, pause, or reduce difficulty.
- Without owner training, the dog may listen in class and fail at home.
- Good training leaves the owner more independent and confident.
Verdict
A good trainer does not “take the problem away”; they teach you to communicate better with your dog every day.
Sources consulted
- Rising Starr K9 — https://www.risingstarrk9.com/blog/is-your-trainer-training-you-or-just-your-dog
- Off Leash K9 Georgia — https://offleashgeorgia.com/why-does-my-dog-listen-to-the-trainer-and-not-me/
- Pawsitive K9 Solutions — https://pawsitivek9solution.com/2023/01/23/why-my-dog-listens-to-the-dog-trainer-not-me/